Unpacking Impact
As someone with white, thin, phsyically-able bodied, European-American privilege:
Internalized supremacist bias and colonizer conditioning provides the option to avoid crucial, relational-mending conversations (that might otherwise be inherent to someone else's existence). This degree of selective ignorance creates a substantial barrier for collective healing.
Further, I cannot understand the impact of ancestral, generational, and systemic trauma that accompanies being a person of color nor the byproduct of intentional systemic annihaltion due to race and/or heritage. There is trauma I do not and won't ever know.
Additionally, as someone who works with our Earth as a healing resource, recognizing the history embued in the soil of that land is a key aspect of honoring its contributions. Meaning, when I offer support in the now referenced city of Houston, I am practicing on the native lands of the Coahuiltecan, Karankawa, Sana, Ishak (Atakapa), Atakapa, and Karankawa people. Their lives on this land are a presence that cannot be erased.
In my practice understanding someone else’s suffering is not a prerequisite for offering and providing care. Education, respect, active empathy, reflection, and responsibility for the role I play in the revolution of healing— influence how I show up for the people who need and seek my help.
Equally, this may mean I am not the clinician for you. AND THAT'S OKAY.
What we can do, is get you the community resources, support, and safety you have deserved from the beginning.